Hmmm...

Finally managed to watch The Notebook yesterday. Bought the dvd like..... 1 1/2 years ago? Was super touched by the story. Though i've read the book before and kind of knew what the story was about, but in less than 30 mins into the show, i was moved to tears. = P

I absolutely love Nicholas Sparks books. I know i know. They're love stories. But somehow, every story showed a different kind of love. ( I still read a range of books k. Ranging from mysteries, action, thriller, romance, -idunnowhatgenreisDanBrown'sbooksunder- to detective stories). As long as it has a good storyline, i won't mind reading it. = )

Hmm.. The movie was really touching. Showed me how reality clashed with everthing. Well, it is kind of true that parents mind the status of the other person's family that you're gonna marry into. I mean, for example. For a girl, the parents would actually be quite concern over the bf's job and how much he's making. Would he be able to support her and stuffs. True... But sometimes, i feel that people have to look past the materialistic world. Sometimes, money and status is really not everything. Yea...initially it would matter, in the eyes of relatives and would you be able to proudly show off your other partner. I mean, it is kind of embarrassing if people ask what your partner does for a living, and you reply, ' In the environment business'. But in reality, he may be a garang guni or rubbish collector or something. Or worse, the girl is actually holding a higher post than the guy and she's actually bringing home the bigger piece of bread. Parents of the girl must be thinking -- why is my daughter suffering? She should be the one who's being pampered!

But i guess in this new century... People are much more open minded. Some people believe that love conquers all... blahblahblah. But i guess everyone has to be rational in making such choices. We must think of the future, the consequences of our actions, what we, ourselves actually want and not what others like parents, relatives want. Cuz ultimately, the choice is yours. And we must be responsible for the full brunt of consequences that may happen. If you think the other party is able to make you feel like your natural self, no pretending no faking expressions or feelings, able to make you feel whole and complete, yea.. i guess that's the one. If hanging out with him or her makes you feel trapped, incomplete, faked, and always compromising your happiness, i guess there's no happy ending. Cuz one day, you'll realise that you need freedom.. You'll need to be free and express your true self. Maybe by then, it'll be too late to return. Cuz you'll only live once. So people! Please make rational choices! Lolz...

Well, the movie reminded me of Robz. Muz get him to watch the show. Haha.. That's a difficult task. The movie made me remember the times i've spent with him. Ahh~~...those precious memories. Learnt so much from him, gone through so much. But no regrets! Treasure him lots.... = ) Geez... Even inspired me to message him at 4am to thank him for being with me even though i'm such a b**** sometimes. = P Haha... But i'm really glad to have him by my side.......

He keeps me warm!!!

Sorry for being so sappy... Lolz.. Blame the female hormones...

xoxo Ei Leen xoxo